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Cariño

9/22/2017

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Guests are always very important to me. It’s important to be attentive to your guests and make sure they are well taken care of. Hospitality is something that I find to be a key part of our Christian and Marist life. I think that hospitality is one of the ways that Marist family spirit comes alive for many people.

Being a guest, and a guest for a long time, is a very different experience. You become the guest who is attended to and looked after. My time here in Medellín is long. I’ve been here since September 3rd and will return at the end of October. So I am not just a guest. I live here and I’m a part of the community. The first couple weeks that I was here, however, I really felt a welcome and care that was and still is very touching.

Attention and care for a guest is called hospitality in English. In Spanish, the word is “hospitalidad”. As I got used to the schedule, or remembered that I needed something that I hadn’t brought with me, a brother would immediately help me. Different brothers would also ask me “Did you understand all that?” or “How are you feeling after a week?” In chapel, someone would always make sure I had the translation of any prayer we were saying, so that I could participate. This reception and care was warm and fraternal. It was what we in Spanish would call “cariño”. This means particular or special attention, and usually warm and loving.

When you start a new leg of your journey or transition into a new space, those moments of contact are so important. It becomes easy to put these moments to the side in favor of what makes you most comfortable in the moment, or isolating yourself. In the past month and a half I entered the novitiate, moved into a new home, and I’m in Colombia. I’d say transitions abound in my life!

Thankfully, I have really felt the presence of Jesus saying to me “You’re fine. Take it one step at a time. Don’t forget to be here for the experience.” Each meal, each prayer, each adventure into town is a very real reminder that we can experience God in community and in our relationships. Cleaning up, cooking, sports, or TV are all spaces of encounter. Each time I get to connect with friends and family back home via phone or messaging, I also feel that care and support.

To receive that is a gift. Offering that hospitality, that “cariño” to someone else, is also a gift. How can we invite others into our lives? How can we better show care and support? Who is Jesus calling me to care for?

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Yo creo que los invitados a una casa son muy importantes. Cuando hay invitados, es importante ser atento a las necesidades que tienen para hacerlos sentir como en casa. Hospitalidad es una parte clave de la vida Cristiana y la vida Marista. Yo creo que en esto, podemos ver al espíritu de familia que practicamos.

Siendo un invitado, y un invitado por mucho tiempo, es algo diferente. La comunidad te da mucha atención y una acogida muy fraterno. Mi tiempo aquí en Medellín is largo. Por este tiempo, vivo aquí y soy parte de la comunidad. Las primeras semanas que estuve aqui, los hermanos me recibieron con una acogida muy linda.

En inglés usamos la palabra hospitalidad para hablar de la acogida que se da a un invitado. Cuando estuve acostumbrandome al horario, o cuando yo necesitaba algo, un hermano siempre me ayudaba inmediatamente. Diferentes hermanos me preguntaban “¿Entendiste eso?” o “¿Como te sientes después de una semana?” En la capilla, siempre me daban las traducciones de las oraciones, para que yo pudiera participar. La acogida fue especialmente fraterno. Eso lo llamamos en espanol “cariño”. Cariño es distinto a hospitalidad. Cariño implica un amor, un sencillez, y una conexión.

Cuando está en medio de una transición, estos momentos de contacto son importantes. Puede ser fácil ignorar estos momentos en favor de algo que te hace sentir más cómodo. Es fácil aislarse, pero eso no ayuda. En el mes y medio pasado yo entré al noviciado, me mudé a una nueva comunidad, y ahora estoy en Colombia por casi un mes y medio. ¡Las transiciones son abundante en mi vida!

Yo he sentido la presencia de Jesús diciendo “Estas bien. Haz todo paso a paso. No te olvides de ser presente durante la experiencia.” Los momentos de compartir en torno a la mesa, las oraciones, y las aventuras en Medellín son recuerdos que Dios está presente en la comunidad. Limpiando, cocinando, jugando baloncesto, o viendo televisión… todos son espacios de encuentro. Yo siento este encuentro también cuando me comunico con familia y amigos de mi país

El recibir cariño es un regalo. Ofreciendo cariño a otros también puede ser un regalo. ¿Cómo podemos invitar a otros a compartir en nuestras vidas? ¿Cómo podemos mejorar nuestro capacidad de dar apoyo? ¿Quienes son los que Jesús me llama a dar cariño?

-Luís

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Peter
9/23/2017 08:40:18 am

Well done-see u in a few weeks

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Christopher
9/29/2017 01:00:44 am

Wonderful as usual. I have been following the notes and pictures sent out each day from the General Chapter taking place in Columbia. You will always have this wonderful memory of being in Columbia with your fellow novices from Arco Norte and being only a few miles away from a history making General Chapter.

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